catadioptric:

anxiety and depression aren’t cute or endearing stop romanticizing them they’re horrible afflictions that tear you away from people you love and can ruin your life so stop with the “lol i’m so awkward and depressed uwu” bc you walked into a door or you feel sad sometimes it’s not cute and you’re totally debasing the difficulties we face every day

yes, please find a way to communicate those feelings respectfully, people with mental illnesses deal with a ton of shit and it adds to our suffering when you make that suffering the punchline of a joke. please don’t.

yeabearily:

groupinou:

what the fuck a terf reblogged my trans housing network post and just tagged it signal boost

wow, it’s almost like radical feminists are actually nice people who don’t want trans people to die who woulda thunk it

australian-red-cedar:

being a feminist means changing your behaviour to better support women, not re-labelling everything you do already as ~an empowering statement~

I s2g I get off Tumblr for like 24 hours and come back to a WOC being compared to an Oompaloompa, ugh this is the worst website

"They don’t “accidentally” rape women. They don’t “misread the signals”. Every day, men who pretend that they are incapable of telling that women don’t want them to penetrate their bodies, read hundreds of social signals expertly. They know when to joke about with the boss; when to back down gracefully in a meeting without losing face; when to negotiate hard and when to keep some back for the next deal; they know when to banter with their colleagues and when to be professional. They know when to slap down someone in a pub or a club or on a train and when that would be dangerous – most men, like most women, are very, very good at negotiating social signals."

agh that language makes me squirm

I just, WOC are compared to animals all the time? like this is the way my redneck extended family talks about WOC sometimes, and it’s never my place to criticize a POC, but seeing a WOC compared to a flea- and disease-ridden rat just

it just leaves an incredibly gross feeling and as a white person I feel complicit in that sentiment, in comparing WOC to animals, if I don’t vocalize that I object? 

I’m just very unsure of how to navigate here and in future similar situations because I don’t want to exercise my white privilege like an asshole but I am uncomfortable being silent while WOC are called rats

terfsmasher666:

cakehope:

celestia:

terfsmasher666:

celestia:

gloomybun:

hedonisticparadise:

terfsmasher666:

wow hedonisticparadise you look really cute here!

Have you considered killing yourself or?

Are they implying rats aren’t cute?

its a pretty big compliment to call her a rat considering rats are like the sweetest cuddliest animals on the planet so op wtf are u trying to pull here mate

shes flea ridden, and probably full of diseases. 

i wish there was a way i could get an rss feed on your fucking life so that it alerts me when you die so i can piss on your god damn grave bye

does anyone else think it’s at least vaguely racist that this person is comparing a WOC to a rat, and saying she’s flea- and disease-ridden? like am I wrong for feeling like that’s hella racist or

if ur white you need to shut the fuck up because im not

? my page that you very obviously visited clearly shows that I’m white, in the interest of full transparency.
+ if I were addressing you then I would have reblogged it from you lmao, but either way thanks for clearing that up I guess, obviously I really object to your overall message but it’s definitely not my place to call a poc racist so thanks

terfsmasher666:

cakehope:

celestia:

terfsmasher666:

celestia:

gloomybun:

hedonisticparadise:

terfsmasher666:

wow hedonisticparadise you look really cute here!

Have you considered killing yourself or?

Are they implying rats aren’t cute?

its a pretty big compliment to call her a rat considering rats are like the sweetest cuddliest animals on the planet so op wtf are u trying to pull here mate

shes flea ridden, and probably full of diseases. 

i wish there was a way i could get an rss feed on your fucking life so that it alerts me when you die so i can piss on your god damn grave bye

does anyone else think it’s at least vaguely racist that this person is comparing a WOC to a rat, and saying she’s flea- and disease-ridden? like am I wrong for feeling like that’s hella racist or

if ur white you need to shut the fuck up because im not

? my page that you very obviously visited clearly shows that I’m white, in the interest of full transparency.

+ if I were addressing you then I would have reblogged it from you lmao, but either way thanks for clearing that up I guess, obviously I really object to your overall message but it’s definitely not my place to call a poc racist so thanks

celestia:

terfsmasher666:

celestia:

gloomybun:

hedonisticparadise:

terfsmasher666:

wow hedonisticparadise you look really cute here!

Have you considered killing yourself or?

Are they implying rats aren’t cute?

its a pretty big compliment to call her a rat considering rats are like the sweetest cuddliest animals on the planet so op wtf are u trying to pull here mate

shes flea ridden, and probably full of diseases. 

i wish there was a way i could get an rss feed on your fucking life so that it alerts me when you die so i can piss on your god damn grave bye

does anyone else think it’s at least vaguely racist that this person is comparing a WOC to a rat, and saying she’s flea- and disease-ridden? like am I wrong for feeling like that’s hella racist or

celestia:

terfsmasher666:

celestia:

gloomybun:

hedonisticparadise:

terfsmasher666:

wow hedonisticparadise you look really cute here!

Have you considered killing yourself or?

Are they implying rats aren’t cute?

its a pretty big compliment to call her a rat considering rats are like the sweetest cuddliest animals on the planet so op wtf are u trying to pull here mate

shes flea ridden, and probably full of diseases. 

i wish there was a way i could get an rss feed on your fucking life so that it alerts me when you die so i can piss on your god damn grave bye

does anyone else think it’s at least vaguely racist that this person is comparing a WOC to a rat, and saying she’s flea- and disease-ridden? like am I wrong for feeling like that’s hella racist or

radical-bias:

If putting naked pictures of your ex on the web for other men to pleasure themselves to is “revenge,” what does that say about pornography in general?

bloomersuit:

Lisa Diamond Calls Out Boehner’s DOMA Team For Fucking With Her Shit

behind-enemy-traces:

poutre-elle:

Hello everyone, I hope everyone is having a good day for I had two vegan muffins when I was suppose to have one. They were delicious and some crumbs even got on my keyboard (oh no). Anyway I am not here to tell you about my muffin eating adventures (hehee) but something that has been on my mind for some time.

Non-fluid lesbians are real because I am a non-fluid lesbian. Fluid lesbians are real because I know two and one of them made me some yummy vegan muffins (full circle).

We both can exist, how you may ask? Well for me anyway it is about perspective, labels and sexytime with people. I personally don’t take the word “lesbian” seriously because of the fluidity talk, OMFG right? Not really, it is just *I* feel that most labels really should be taken with a grain of salt and I rather tell people my sexual preference/orientation is often with beautiful women pointing south (sometimes north if I am frisky) EXCLUSIVELY, not “lesbian”. I use lesbian/gay/queer as a political term for sexual politics and equality.

A lesbian who sleeps with men often or once in a while might confuse me for a bit BUT it does not stop me from only wanting sexual/romantic relationships with women (this list includes trans women/cis women/cis-gender women/oh-girl-I-like-your-top women).

Yes it’s annoying when people conflate identities but you live with it because we all want to be seen as equals to straight people. Also what most I-will-never-be-attracted-to-men lesbians I find are really annoyed about when it comes to the whole sexuality is fluid is that unfortunately gets conflated with hetero-sexist and sexist rhetoric like, “Oh you just need to find the right man.” So to them sexual fluidity sounds like, “sexuality is fluid=you will find someone of the opposite sex attractive and therefore non-fluid does not exists, you’re in DENIAL!!! (evil cackle)”

Non-fluid lesbians just need to be more secure about their identities and just kindly remind that “you go glen coco on being fluid but it does not apply to me!”

In conclusion fluid lesbians/gays/bis/etc. exist and non-fluid lesbians/gays/bis/etc. exist too. NOW CAN’T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG LIKE WE USE TO IN MIDDLE SCHOOL? I JUST WANT EVERYBODY TO BE HAPPY DAMMIT!

Ugh I ran out of yummy vegan muffins 

"A lesbian who sleeps with men often or once in a while"

wtf am i reading

So here’s a person (Bra, the commentet) who is agreeing with Boehner et al that…there is no way to define being gay or lesbian? Lisa Diamond was pointing out that these homophobic douchebags were twisting her work so they could defend DOMA…and now a lesbian is agreeing with them that lesbians (and gay men, by the way) don’t exist?

Yeah, I’m with that gif up there.

"lesbians just need to be more cool with non-lesbians appropriating their identity and sexuality and culture" lol

also like what is with the baby talk thing, the lesbian erasure is bad enough, but now I also can’t decide whether or not I should feel condescended to and it makes this post 10x more annoying

thegestianpoet:

here’s the thing:

  • respect sex workers, but
  • do not defend the porn industry 

burrito-princess:

friendly reminder that

  • your orgasm isn’t more important than women’s safety
  • your kinks aren’t above criticism
  • sexual proclivities don’t exist in a vacuum away from social influence 
  • if you think otherwise you’re probably a misogynist 

madblackgirl:

"guess since im a white man im not allowed to have opinions"

your opinions have shaped the world we live in today not being catered to for 83.9 seconds will not fuckin kill you

lynnpls:

ucnk:

gloomyimouto:

Talking about female sexual health isn’t transphobic when we live in a culture where girls don’t know what discharge is and decide to get labiaplasty at age 14.

it is transphobic if you call it female sexual health though instead of sexual health for people with vaginas

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